Too Young?


I apologize for the lack of a blog post earlier this week. We’ve had some financial/personal stress in our lives that took up most of my reading time, and I wasn’t able to do a weekly favorites video. That’s been figured out for the most part and I will have one up next week!

To continue with the ‘marriage’ theme I started on the blog last week, I wanted to bring up another topic that people feel the need to ask me about frequently- the age I got married.

Just like any other discussion I bring up on here, I have the same opinion- mind your own business because everyone is different. People are always shocked that I got married at 21, and always feel the need to ask a million questions about it.

Haha, was it a shotgun wedding?

(Um, rude?)

Won’t you miss dating? 

(If anyone tells me that they actually miss dating, I’m laughing at them.)

Why not wait? 

(Because I don’t want to?)

You know this is for life, right? 


You’re HOW old? 

(Old enough!)

Etc, etc… As you all know, people can be incredibly insensitive about matters that are truly none of their concern.

However, I am here to defend my desicions.

Growing up, I always assumed I was going to live alone until I was at LEAST 30. That would give me time to date whoever I wanted, get my life set up financially, and just generally have a good time.

I met Cameron when I was seventeen,  he was my boss at a fast food place. Immediately I found him to be the most interesting and wonderful person I had ever met, and I still think that to this day. We worked together for about six months, and then I went away to college. He actually went to the same school that I did, and we still had conversations occasionally.

In the summer of 2013, we finally had a first date. It didn’t take long for me to know that this was what I wanted, and it wasn’t going to change. We got married in 2015, right after I turned 21. Cameron was 24.

My personal opinion is- if you’ve found the person you can deal with anything with, why wait? I know that no matter what garbage gets thrown at me, I have my best friend with me to deal with it. You never know how long or short your life will end up being, so do what makes you happy.

That may be overly simplistic, but it’s worked for me.

Now of course, this doesn’t speak to every single person who got married at a young age. I do know people who have had horrible experiences. However I can only speak for my own. Also, if you marry someone horrible- it could be at age 18 or 65, there’s no limit. My point here is that it is not generally a horrible thing to get married at a young age.

What are your thoughts on the subject? What age did you get married? How do you think your life would have turned out differently if you married someone at a different age? 

2 thoughts on “Too Young?

  1. Maggie

    My first thought is, why are you concerned with defending this? You know it’s perfect. I married at 24 and ruined my life. It’s about the choice of spouse, not the age!

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